Behavior & Development Blog
Practical guidance for everyday challenges
Hi, I'm Tiffany, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Certified Behavioral Sleep Practitioner, and mom of three. I believe strategies should make sense not only in theory, but in the realities of everyday family life.
Here you'll find practical information about children's behavior, sleep, routines, and development. Topics include everything from meltdowns, transitions, and building independence to bedtime challenges, sleep difficulties, and support for children with autism or ADHD.
My goal is to help you better understand what may be contributing to a challenge and share approaches grounded in behavioral science that are realistic to use at home.
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Autism and Sleep: What to Do When Your Child Has Struggled With Sleep for Years
Sleep challenges are common in autistic children, but longstanding sleep problems don’t have to be something your family simply adapts to. Learn what to look at when your child has struggled with falling asleep, night waking, or needing significant support to sleep.
When It Feels Like You’re Correcting Your Child All Day
When your child needs a lot of reminders, redirection, or help throughout the day, it can start to feel like you’re constantly correcting them. Here’s why the things going well can be easy to miss, and how noticing those moments can help without feeling like you have to praise everything your child does.
Why Boundaries Can Be Harder for Kids With ADHD, Even When They Know the Rule
Your child can tell you exactly what the rule is, but following it in the moment is another story. Learn why boundaries can be harder for children with ADHD and what parents can do to make expectations clearer and easier to follow.
Why Does My Child Listen at School but Not at Home?
Does your child follow directions at school but seem to struggle with the same expectations at home? Looking at what's different between the two environments can help explain why—and give you a better idea of what may help.
Why Does My Child Keep Doing This? Looking at the “Why” Behind Behavior
When the same challenging behavior keeps happening, another strategy isn't always the answer. Looking at what may be driving the behavior can help you understand what your child needs and choose strategies that are more likely to help.
Why Sleep Is One of the Best Back-to-School Preparations
Back-to-school season isn't just about school supplies. Quality sleep plays a big role in helping children regulate emotions, focus in class, and navigate the transitions that come with a new school year. In this post, I'll explain why sleep matters so much and share simple ways to help your family start the school year on the right foot.
The "One More Thing" Cycle: Why Bedtime Stalling Happens and What to Do About It
Routine started at 7:30. Lights out at 8:00. And somehow at 10:00 PM, my son was in the hallway ready to discuss who invented toilet paper. If your child's version of bedtime stalling looks more like curiosity and connection than defiance, here's what's actually going on and what helps.
Why Bedtime Suddenly Stopped Working This Summer
Bedtime was working. Then summer happened. If your child is suddenly harder to settle at night and nothing obvious changed, timing is usually the first thing worth looking at. Here's what's going on and how to get things back on track.
How to Build a Bedtime Routine That Actually Works
Most families already have some version of a bedtime routine. So why is bedtime still a battle? Usually it comes down to a few specific things — the order changes depending on who's doing bedtime, it ends too abruptly, or it starts too late for the brain to actually wind down. Here's what makes a routine actually work and how to build one that does.
Three Simple Anchors That Make Summer Easier for Kids and Parents
Summer doesn't have to be completely unstructured, but it doesn't have to look like the school year either. Most kids do better with a few consistent anchors throughout the day than a rigid schedule. Here's what those anchors are, why they work, and what they can look like in a real summer.
Why Won't My Child Fall Asleep Without Me? What's Actually Going On (And What Helps)
If your child can only fall asleep with you in the room, you're not alone, and you're not doing anything wrong. Most sleep associations develop so gradually that parents don't notice until the pattern is already set. Here's what's actually going on, why it affects night wakings too, and how to gradually shift things in a way that works for your family.
Why Won't My Child Sleep? The 5 Most Common Reasons (And Where to Start)
Bedtime battles, night wakings, a child whose brain just won't slow down. If you've tried a lot and nothing is sticking, the problem usually isn't effort. It's direction. Here are the five most common reasons kids struggle with sleep and how to figure out which one fits your child.
Why Kids Melt Down When You Turn Off Screens (And What to Do About It, Especially at Bedtime)
Screen time battles at the end of the day aren't really about defiance. They're about transitions, stimulation, and skills that are still developing. Here's what's actually driving the behavior and what to do about it.
5 Parenting Skills That Support Easier Bedtimes
Sleep challenges do not always start at bedtime. Many children struggle with everyday skills like transitions, waiting, cooperation, and calming their bodies, which can make settling at night harder. In this post, we explore five parenting skills that support both daytime behavior and smoother bedtimes.
It's Okay to Set Sleep Boundaries That Support Your Sleep Too
You can be a responsive, loving parent and hold boundaries around sleep. Your rest isn't selfish—it's necessary. Here's how to create sustainable sleep for everyone.
Why Bedtime Reward Charts Fail (And How to Make Them Actually Work)
Your bedtime sticker chart worked great for exactly three nights. Here's why most charts fail—and how to know if yours will actually help or just create more battles.
“Share Your Calm, Don’t Join the Chaos”… But What Does That Actually Mean?
That parenting quote about sharing your calm instead of joining the chaos? It's beautiful—and incredibly hard when you're exhausted and triggered. Here's how to actually do it, even when your own nervous system is activated.
New Year Sleep Goals That Actually Stick
Big sleep resolutions rarely work. Small, intentional changes do. Learn why gradual shifts in bedtime, routines, and consistency create lasting improvements—without the pressure of overnight transformation.
ADHD and Sleep: Why Your Child Can't Fall Asleep (And What Helps)
Why kids with ADHD can't fall asleep even with perfect routines - and what actually helps. Learn the Brain Dump Method for racing thoughts at bedtime. Step-by-step guide by BCBA.
How to Fall Asleep Fast For Kids
When your child is still wide awake 45 minutes after bedtime, it's natural to wonder what you're doing wrong. Research shows that typical sleep onset for children is 15-20 minutes. If your child consistently takes longer, there are concrete, evidence-based strategies that can help them settle faster - whether you have a toddler, preschooler, or school-age child.
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